Sex coaching for you.

Tailored coaching that helps you get the sex life you want, not the sex life you’ve been sold.

We aren’t born with the knowledge of how to have a fulfilling sex life, and rarely are we taught it.

And when you’re queer, kinky, and/or non-monogamous, finding education that actually speaks to you is even harder.

Through 1:1 coaching sessions (or more-on-one if you’re coming in with a partner/partners), Erodite helps you understand what obstacles stand in your way to authentic pleasure and provides you the tools to get there.

erodite — ‘er·ə·dīt

(adjective)

  1. educated in the erotic; a combination of the words eros and erudite

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Meet Your Coach—Ashley Floyd

Ashley Floyd (she/they), LMFT, MS, MEd, is a licensed therapist, sex educator, and published author. She loves nothing more than putting her education to use and helping others find and experience authentic pleasure.


Explore Ashley’s Published Articles:

Not sure if sex coaching is right for you?

Learn more with the articles below.

  • What is sex coaching?

    What even happens during a sex coaching session? Is it right for you? How much does it cost?

  • Sex coaching vs. Sex therapy

    What is the difference between sex coaching and sex therapy? A therapist and sex coach fills you in.

  • Behind the Screens

    Get to know the mind behind Erodite; their credentials, training, and perspectives.

Tailored Coaching for All

Sex coaching that considers you, wherever and whoever you are


Online Sex Coaching

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Coaching from the comfort of your own home, anywhere in the US

Erodite is based in Madison, Wisconsin but serves people from all over the country, making sex coaching more accessible to those outside of big cities.

Your sessions are held where you are most comfortable, helping you feel relaxed during your sessions. As an experienced telehealth therapist, I’m well-versed in providing effective virtual sessions.

LGBTQ+ Affirming Coaching

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Queer-affirming coaching for folks anywhere on the sexuality spectrum

A lot of sex coaching you’ll find is geared toward cisgender, straight couples. Not here.

As a person who identifies as queer in many ways, I am honored to run Erodite with a personal and educated eye toward queer experiences.

You should not be an afterthought. With Erodite, you’re not.

Kink Coaching

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Kink-affirming coaching for beginners and kinksters alike

Are you ready to dip your toes into the kinky waters? Do you need some fresh scene ideas or want some guidance as you transition into a 24/7 dynamic? Maybe you want to discuss maintaining consent in a CNC scene?

Working with Erodite means you’re working with a coach who is educated in the world of kink and won’t judge you or your interests.

Non-Monogamy Coaching

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Non-monogamy affirming help for open, poly, and other relationships

Sex and relationships are as unique as the people in them. You deserve coaching that understands and values however you’ve structured your intimate relationships.

Whether you’re looking to talk about navigating NM or simply want a space where your experience won’t be invalidated, Erodite is here for you.

How does

Erodite

Differ?

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“Coaching” is not a regulated field. Any one can create a website and call themselves a “coach”. At Erodite, you can rest assured that you are working with someone who won’t blow smoke up your ass.

Ashley is a practicing therapist, which means you’re not wasting your time in the wrong place—if therapy is a better fit for you, you’ll be told! This also means your coach is trauma-informed and won’t throw you in the deep end without considering your needs.

Not only is Ashley a licensed therapist, they also have a Masters of Education in Human Sexuality. With a specialty in sexuality, queerness, kink, and non-monogamy, you’ll get tailored education you just can’t get elsewhere.

Get started with Erodite

If you are curious about sex coaching and want to talk with Ashley about whether it’s right for you, or if you’re ready to begin and want to get started, fill out the contact form below to get in touch. You can expect a response back in 1-3 business days.

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